My Nohari Window

[samvara]

Thank you to everyone for contributing (you still can!) to my Johari Window. It's a learning experience and I'm enjoying contemplating it.

I'd like to do My Nohari as well if people are comfortable with it; you don't have to use your name if you'd prefer. *grins* I plan to use this information to improve myself, so any contributions will be gratefully received.

Comments

[ironed_orchid]

I just did it and I think some of the things I picked are similar to the ones you chose, but with a slightly different nuance, which might relate more to how each of us thinks of the terms involved.

[samvara]

Thank you! I'm choosing to be pretty relaxed about it and use it as a way to make it easier for other people to know me and work with me.

[ironed_orchid]

Uh, I meant the johari version. The nohari one is much harder, I don't tend to use those words about most people I like, because mostly when I like people I do so because I see their positive attributes.

[samvara]

I appreciate the positive feedback as well! The negative is interesting though - what if I'm able to address things that cause other people unhappiness relatively easily for example?

[ironed_orchid]

I also found that if I could apply a nohari word to you, I meant it in a positive way. For instance, I think it's good to be self-satisfied if it's because you do good work and know it, and it's right not to tolerate intolerable things.

[onceamy]

I found the nohari words too strong for any faults I could ever think of associating with you. :D

[samvara]

Aww, I'm willing to accept approximations, my feelings will not be hurt :)

[ascetic-hedony.livejournal.com]

I wanted to be able to select more options in Johari and fewer in Nohari. As it was, some of the flaws are more historical than current.

[black-samvara.livejournal.com]

Thank you for doing it! Same, I would have liked 3-4 for the Nohari and not have to make up the distance.

*hugs*

I'm feeling pretty good about it and looking very much to the future and how to lessen other people's notsogreat experiences of me :)