Thoroughly interesting and enjoyable. Some body-horror. Yes, she does think she is a planet. No, I don’t want to spoil it.
Thoroughly interesting and enjoyable. Some body-horror. Yes, she does think she is a planet. No, I don’t want to spoil it.
The unnamed protagonist meanders through a fabulous mosaic of folk tales. Reminds me of books like the Red Fairy Book by Andrew Lang (1890), The Palm-Wine Drinkard (1952) has that same delightful lack of self-consciousness and weird, rambly lack of adherence to more conventional and more modern writing traditions.
This is rich, evocative, and full of complex language and details. I can see why it was Booker shortlisted, they all seem to have that intensely personal, wordy style.
I want to love this more than I do, the (realistic) sexual violence makes me angry and sad and my willingness to experience it in fiction when I have to put up with it in life is very low.
"Sonokrom is a place that has not changed for hundreds of years; the men and women speak the language of the forest, drink aphrodisiacs with their palm wine and commune with the spirits of their ancestors. However, the woman's intrusion and ensuing events lead to an invasion from Accra, the capital city, spearheaded by Kayo; a young forensic pathologist convinced that scientific logic can shatter even the most inexplicable of mysteries."
Warning: cruelty to woman, cruelty to children
Two things
- I'm gonna need to vent for a few days (weeks?) until I stop having all these feelings
- This was SO MUCH LESS HORRIBLE because I had support and advice and information so I am paying it forward.
On stalking: It is never OK to do this kind of thing, it is not funny, it is not sexy. It made me feel unsafe. It meant the next day, until he was gone, that I second-guessed every interaction at that conference (of which men were probably 90% of the attendees) and wasted a lot of energy managing anxiety when I could have been benefiting from that very expensive conference ticket. I’m probably going to be having feelings about this for a long time.
On social networks: I was too busy being half awake and alarmed to have an effective response when this happened. It took time to process, it was my social network who prompted me through calling security and requesting the room change, I asked for my conference ID badge to be redacted on my own, but it took a few hours before I was thinking strategically and not just feeling overwhelmed. They validated my feelings, made me feel like it was OK to ask for what I needed, and meant I never felt alone.
THANK YOU.
Treasure the good people you meet in your life, nurture those relationships and share your strength when you can.
On scripts: Being prepared, having a response, knowing what I could say or do or expect can make a huge difference to my emotional well being, and to how I choose to act. It enables me to act rather than freeze up in difficult situations, it means I can protect myself, and it means I can stand up for myself and others.
My proposed future Script
- Complain to hotel security, that’s what they are for
- Request a room change, a different room when someone creepy knows where you are is A Good Thing.
- Complain to the police - I am sad I did not do this, awful!person could have been going home with a police record that might contribute to a future someone’s safety.
On positive action: One of my coping strategies is to try and find a positive action I can do, it helps me channel fear and anger into something that generates better feelings, and makes me feel less helpless when faced with something awful. My positive actions for this event are:
- To share this with you; may this be in some way useful or empowering for you
- To inoculate my workplace (via complaining about this a lot) in order to a) share my script with female coworkers and b) let my male coworkers know this is not OK and has consequences.
- To reflect on how lucky I am to have such excellent support networks, that there were responsive hotel staff, and supportive conference staff
Gah. The End.
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- Arrow - attempting to catch up and made some great progress while auditing my music collection (now in two folders called "sorted" and "pit of voles"). Ollie is still ridiculous but Felicity and Diggle are so much fun
- In the Flesh - liked episode 1, not fluffy watching, will have to ration carefully
- Grimm S03 - up to date and still in love, have forgiven sudden attack of the stupid to set up the S03 cliffhanger on account of Munroe and Rosalie awesome and potential to explore Nick and Juliette being able to choose the Grimm lifestyle voluntarily. Babygrimm FTW!
- Orphan Black - up to date and deeply invested, so many issues, so many questions, so much plot. Maslany was robbed at the Emmy’s
- Teen Wolf - did not have to marathon as cupidsbow and I have a standing weekly TW watching date which also gives me a front row seat on the fabulous meta being produced
- Guardians of the Galaxy - surprisingly good
- X-Men: Days of Future Past - eh
- Top Hat (Ginger Rogers & Fred Astaire) - adorable and fluffy
- Casablanca - rewatching for the upteenth time
Born out of many happy hours playing Skyrim before ESO launched in April. Initial exposure waszorana's fault, closely followed by
maharetr who also got into Skyrim and brother J. who pointed out ESO was about to go live and enthused at me over the Beta.
BEST THING: The thing that blows me away the most is that I have now become accustomed to constantly seeing female non player characters of every race performing all the roles. It took me over 200 hours of gameplay to start taking the abundance of female characters for granted. That’s over 200 hours that I spent feeling surprised and delighted every time I met a new female NPC. Now I just get the odd burst when I encounter another married same-sex couple engaged in gay activities like fighting pirates, memorialising their long, happy life together, or dealing with the health issues associated with being a secret werewolf.
NEXT BEST THING: gaming group with maharetr,
ascetic_hedony and A. after we all realised we were more invested in roleplaying Khajiit then we were in optimising for racial bonuses. We meet once or twice a week and Do All The Quests or run around Cyrodiil (the player killing map) screaming and dying together. There is no situation that cannot be improved by a fireball trebuchet.
WORST THING: No ‘reason’ field when you add a character to your ignore list. It’s not essential, but it’s an excellent indicator a complaint is accurate if an account has a lot of ignores and comments like ‘gold farmer’ ‘sexist jerk’ or ‘troll’ associated with them. Having said that, the chat tone is surprisingly good and I've seen some nuanced social policing going on.
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- City of Bones - watchable, feels like a young woman's fantasy life all smushed together. I'm not opposed.
- After Earth - stopped after 15 mins. I want to support this movie but it was too boring for me to watch.
- Arrow Season 2 - Ollie is still awful but the rest of the cast makes up for it
- Beauty and the Beast (2012) - YOU ARE ALL FIRED, WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME THIS EXISTED? It's full of melodrama and ridiculous angst and lovely LOVELY female characters and plots that don't shame women and it has evil, lurking corporations.
- Elementary - happens when I'm in the room, no objections and quite a lot of love for Watson.
- Grimm Season 3 - still fun and Monroe is still awesome
- Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D - too boring to watch, so sad. Holding out for a Peggy Carter series.
- Orphan Black - GOLD, PURE GOLD.
- Sleepy Hollow - on probation, but has many pleasing qualities
- Supernatural Season 8 - so much better than seasons 6 & 7, it's like having an old friend back
We're in the market for a good henna painter / tattooist what with the hair loss and excellent canvas space emerging. Any recommendations?
Will love you forever and possibly provide a tangible form of that love.
We spent most of today in hospital for an unrelated health emergency which resulted in
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I am pulling back on 'stuff' in general and volunteer activities in specific since between job hunting, doing my last MBA unit and supporting G. I'm feeling stretched.
If you have any good suggestions for knitted or crocheted hats I'd love to hear them.
- Pacific Rim - I thought all I wanted was giant robots and dinosaurs but it turns out I also wanted it to make a little more sense. It's possible the mecha genre is always like this in which case please forgive my ignorance. Yes. One or more people who worked on Pacific Rim have either collaborated with Roman Polanski or publicly expressed support for him. Guillermo del Toro (Director)
- Wolverine - Mmm, dead over-sexualised lesbians. I appreciated Wolverine giving up his mainpain, I liked some of the movie, I had low expectations which is always a good idea. Yes.One or more people who worked on The Wolverine have either collaborated with Roman Polanski or publicly expressed support for him. Hiroyuki Sanada (Shingen Yashida)
- She Done Him Wrong - a total gem. Mae West is a fast talking unstoppable bombshell of wit and giant feathery outfits. No! None of the cast or crew of She Done Him Wrong have collaborated with Roman Polanski or publicly expressed support for him.
- Seven Year Itch - tried very hard but a movie entirely about a creep is hard to take. Did not finish. Marilyn was adorable and the famous air vent scene surprisingly understated. No! None of the cast or crew of The Seven Year Itch have collaborated with Roman Polanski or publicly expressed support for him.
- Ran 3km, v. exciting, am easing back in gently as hamstring injury still not entirely better
- Kiba and Kenobi flung themselves into the swamp and subsequently radiated sudsy, soggy misery at me in the shower. I dried Kiba first and kicked him out to concentrate on Kenobi then Kiba tried to break back into the bathroom because someone was having fun without him. My puppy ladies and gentlefolk
- Playing A Dark Room, I blame
maharetr who is an enabler of the worst kind
Item | Apparent Health |
Many cashews and almonds | Excellent |
One television remote | Excellent |
The handle of a pair of scissors | Excellent |
A piece of skirting board | Excellent |
Untold amounts of Tupperware | Excellent |
Gluten Free Marshmallows | Excellent |
Chunk of raw ginger larger than my thumb | Excellent |
Half a pink thong | Excellent |
Lid of a travel coffee mug | Excellent |
Many raw potatoes | Excellent |
A parsnip | Excellent |
Another couch cushion | Excellent |
One stuffed qokka | Excellent |
Three socks | Excellent |
One sneaker shoelace | Excellent |
One rose bush | Excellent |
Two packets of rice paper | Excellent |
Three tissue boxes | Excellent |
Cable for warming dog bed | Excellent |
Many tennis balls | Excellent |
Cable for iDevice recharger | Excellent |
Garden Fertiliser | Excellent |
Couch cushion | Excellent |
Russian Caraven loose leaf tea | Excellent |
Several nectarines | Excellent |
A bag of green string beans | Excellent |
Romance and suspense in Paris, as a woman is pursued by several men who want a fortune her murdered husband had stolen. Who can she trust?
Charming, twisty and funny PLUS in the public domain so I am not contributing $ to the below.
Alas. Yes.One or more people who worked on Charade have either collaborated with Roman Polanski or publicly expressed support for him. Walter Matthau (Hamilton Bartholemew)
- Sneezing, coughing and the usual symptoms = woe!
- Cast 'summon brownies' at
maharetr. That helped <3
- hitRECord #3 arrived in the mail - still fabulous - the NPH and JGL bit was amusing
- Kiba has eaten half of one thong, about 3 socks, and licked my foot lovingly. I clearly taste EXCELLENT
- TEEN WOLF
- GP says 8-12 weeks for hamstring to heal (this is week 7) and advised v. gently stretching in all planes of rotation.
- Melbourne trip involved good food, good company, a trip to CERES, cuddles, the Monet's Garden The Musée Marmottan Monet, Paris exhibition (some v. nice security staff) and more cuddles. Was most excellent to see
littleboot,
transcendancing,
japester,
skud and others and talk shop where 'shop' covered knitting, sourdough, database design, gardening, travel, careers, personal evolution, gender fluidity, social justice and much, much more.
- Grandville Bête Noire, written and illustrated by Bryan Talbot (Dark Horse Comics, Jonathan Cape) Score: 3/5
- Locke & Key Volume 5: Clockworks, written by Joe Hill, illustrated by Gabriel Rodriguez (IDW) Score: 2/5
- Saga, Volume One, written by Brian K. Vaughn, illustrated by Fiona Staples (Image Comics) Score 5/5
- Schlock Mercenary: Random Access Memorabilia, written and illustrated by Howard Tayler, colors by Travis Walton (Hypernode Media) Score 2/5
- Saucer Country, Volume 1: Run, written by Paul Cornell, illustrated by Ryan Kelly, Jimmy Broxton and Goran Sudžuka (Vertigo) Score: 4/5
A 'scientific romance thriller' set in a world where the British call each other 'old chap' a lot and are anthropomorphic. Archibald LeBrock the badger Detective solves crime and falls upon a political conspiracy.
Has a coherent story which I appreciate and the illustrations are very 'period' and steampunky.
Loses points for predictability and the two sole female characters who play the uninspiring roles of jealous sleazy adulteress and jealous plucky prostitute.
Not a good series to come into Vol 5 at, I ended up on wikipedia looking for context. Two children watch their parents get executed by the Redcoats (revolutionary war) then pretend to deliver a goat so they can tell their brother about it in person. Alas, he has been brutally murdered when a mysterious gate opens and various minutemen are possessed. Lucky one of the children is a blacksmith and can make keys and locks.
Has a coherent story but the next story was a sudden jump to modern day which was v. confusing for me. The visual style is gritty and ugly and has an unsurprising amount of well illustrated perky breasts.
Science fantasy at its finest. Alana and Marko, lovers from warring races flee with their infant daughter Hazel.
I was utterly sold in the first three pages. Has a compelling narrative, gorgeous illustrations and a deft sense of humour. Will chase down Volume 2.
ETA: Ordered Vol 1 and pre-ordered Vol 2.
This is Book 13 and I think you have to have preexisting love for the characters. As I don't, this was incoherent and not very enjoyable for me to read. The illustration style has minimal art content and the strip is heavily character driven.
Grand-daughter of X-Files. Hispanic female governor runs for presidency so that she can investigate her alien abduction experience.
Tragically cancelled after 14 issues (Volume 1 is 1-6 & V2 is 7-14) but has a plot, strong illustration work, good characterisation, passes Bechdel test with ease. Loses points for narrative waffling but I will read 7-14 and probably enjoy them.
ETA: Ordered Vol 1 and pre-ordered Vol 2.
Cute, funny and a welcome break from serious stuff. I am not going to critique because the point was to have a fun break.
No! None of the cast or crew of The Great Mouse Detective have collaborated with Roman Polanski or publicly expressed support for him.
We are here for the muscley running, the ludicrously over the top vehicular chase scenes, Michelle Rodriguez and Gina Carano \o/
Also:
<input ... > collaborated with or otherwise supported Roman Polanski.
Thank you, I needed that and will use it.
Oh ugh.
Yes.
One or more people who worked on Iron Man 3 have either collaborated with Roman Polanski or publicly expressed support for him.